Priority REFINEMENT

Look to the chart below for more information about the lifestyle Comfort.

REFINEMENT
Seeks to Feel:	PERFECT,FLAWLESS (without blemish or defect,purified) REFINED (composed, polished,free from baseness or vulgarity) GRANDIOSE (greatness of scope or intent, impressive abilities)
Fears and Tries to Avoid	feeling IMPERFECT (incomplete,having some flaw or defect) EMBARRASSMENT,HUMILIAATION,DISGRACE,SHAME feeling POWERLESS OR OUT OF CONTROL (lacking self-control,or influence,power, and authority over circumstances or people, RISK, RIDICULE, THE UNEXPECTED
ASSETS	leadership qualities,analytical,appreciative of beauty,deep & thoughtful,considers all options, talented,creative,artistic,musical, thorough,precise,organized,productive,deep concern for others conservative,prudent,likes dealing with numbers, scientifically inclined, considers all options, systematic,structured,logical,rational,analytical,assertive,perfectionist,conscientious,persistent, sensitive,orderly,purposeful, compassionate,law abiding,idealistic,objective,fact oriented, philosophical.
OBSTACLES	over-programmed,over serious,too introspective,overcautious, procrastinates,self-centered,can't vary approach lacks warmth,persecution complex,unimaginative,non-humanistic,selective hearing,indecive,lacks speed,manipulative, analysis paralysis,tyrant,lacks flexibility,detail bound,too peristent,moody uptight,depression,guilt feelings, "artiful dodger",unforgiving,hypochondria,rigid,off in another world,false humility.
Strengths	at work: schedule oriented,economical,sees the problem,finds creative solutions, finishes what he/she starts, likes charts,figures,lists,detail conscious. as parent: sets high standards,wants everything done right, picks up after chldren, sacrifices own will for others,keeps order,encourges scholarship and talent. as friend: makes friends cautiously,content to stay in background,avoids causing attention, faithful,devoted,listens to complaints,solves other's problems,compassionate.
Weaknesses	at work: not people oriented,hard to please,standards to high,depressed over imperfection, hesitant to start projects,spends too much time planning,perfers analysis to work. as parent: puts goals beyond reach,may,may discourage children,may be too meticulous, puts guilt upon children,becomes a martyr,sulks over disagreements. as friend: lives through others,insecure socially,withdrawn and remote,holds back affection, suspicious of people,antagonistic,critical,full of contradictions,skeptical of compliments. Being cornered
May Stem From: early childhood	Tight controls Being overpowered

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