Shared by a
Grandmother:
I wanted to share an
idea I read in the
Ensign magazine many years ago and used when raising our children, to
try to instill in them the Christ-like attribute of Charity and concern
for others. The article told how a family counseled together and
decided how much they could afford each month to help others in
need---it could be $5, $10, or whatever. Then each Fast Sunday,
they
discussed the needs of people in their ward, or in the childrens'
school, etc. and brainstormed about who they could help with their
"helping fund" that month and what they could do to help. This
helped
the children to learn to be alert to the needs of others--be they
spiritual, emotional, or physical. Being involved in the
discussions
and in the actual act of service helped them more than just having the
parents give money to a worthy cause.
We tried this idea in our family. For
instance: One month when canned
veggies were on sale 4/$1, we bought a case of canned corn for $6,
wrapped it and left it on the porch on a single mother, with a big note
that said, "With love from the Food Storage Fairy!" Our children
excitedly rang the doorbell and ran! Another month, in the cold
winter, our children chose to buy 2 pair of gloves and 2 hats for two
little daughters of a widow in our stake.
Grandparents could help teach their family by passing
this idea on to
their married children or even invite them over for a FHE and use this
idea for the lesson and give them $10 to help someone that month.
Recently Oprah Winfrey, on one of her shows, gave $1,000
to each member
of the audience with instructions to multiply it as much as possible
and use all proceeds to help others and to report back to her what was
accomplished with the money. The results were amazing--some
multiplied
it 10-fold and so much good was done in the world. Reminds us of
the
"parable of the talents."