Link to entire address  "Be Thou an Example"

Thomas S. Monson,  Oct. 1996 Conf. address excerpt:

For example, consider the law of tithing. The honest payment of tithing provides a person the inner strength and commitment to comply with the other commandments.

President Gordon B. Hinckley has declared: "There has been laid upon the Church a tremendous responsibility. Tithing is the source of income for the church to carry forward its mandated activities. The need is always greater than the availability. God help us to be faithful in observing this great principle which comes form Him with His marvelous promise."

From Malachi we read: "Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings . . . . Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, ther there shall not be room enough to receive it."

All of us can afford to pay tithing. In reality, none of us can afford not to pay tithing. The Lord will strengthen our resolve. He will open a way to comply.

May I share with you a letter I received some months ago which provides such an example? The letter begins:

 
We live on the edge of a small town, and our neighbor uses our pasture for
his cattle and as payment provides us with all the beef we want. Each time
we get new meat, we have some of the present supply left over; and since we
live in a student ward, we take meat to some students we feel might have
use for some good beef.

During the time my wife was serving in a Relief Society presidency, her
secretary was a student's wife -- the mother of eight children. Her
husband, Jack, had recently bene called as ward clerk.

My wife had always prayed to know which students might need our help with
our excess meat. When she told me she felt we should give some meat to Jack
and his family, I was very concerned that we might offend them. So was she.
We both were worried because they were a very independent family.

A few days later, my wife said she still felt we should take the meat to
them, and I reluctantly agreed to go along. When we delivered the meat, my
wife's hands were actually shaking, and I was very nervous. The children
opened the door, and when they heard why we were there, they began dancing
around. The parents were reserved but pleasant. When we drove away, my wife
and I both were so relieved and happy that they had accepted our gift.

A few months later, our friend Jack got up in testimony meeting and related
the following. He said that all his life he had had a hard time paying
tithing. With such a large family, they used all the money he earned just
to get by. When he became ward clerk, he saw all the other people paying
tithing and felt he needed to also. He did so for a couple of months, and
all was well. Then one month he had a problem. In his job, he completed
work and was paid a few months later. He could see that the family was
going to be far short of money. He and his wife decided to share the
problem with their children. If they paid their tithing, they would run out
of food on about the 20th of the month. If they didn't pay their tithing,
they could buy enough food to last until the next paycheck. Jack said he
wanted to buy food, but the children said they wanted to pay tithing -- so
Jack paid the tithing, and they prayed.

A few days after paying their tithing, we had shown up with our package of
meat for them. With the meat, added to what they had, there was no problem
having enough food until the next paycheck.
 

There are so many lessons here for me, said the writer -- for instance, always listen to my wife -- but for me the most important is that the prayers of people are almost answered by the actions of others."