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                        "I HAVE LEARNED"
                                                                  --Author Unknown

     I'VE LEARNED  that you cannot make someone love you.  All you can do is
     be someone who can be loved.....The rest is up to them.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care
     back.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you
     every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want
     doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at
     first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to takes its
     place.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know
     how to show it.

     I'VE LEARNED  that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest
     distance.  Same goes for true love.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that although the word "love" can have many different
     meanings,  it loses value when overly used.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
     you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
     birthdays you've celebrated.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
     Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that no matter how bad your heart is broken,
     the world doesn't stop for your grief.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that our background and circumstances may have influenced
     who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that sometimes when my friends fight,  I'm forced to choose
     sides even when I don't want to.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that just because two people argue,  it doesn't mean they
     don't love each other.  And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their
     actions.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that we don't have to change friends if we understand that
     friends change.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.  It could
     change your life forever.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that two people can look at the exact same thing and see
     something totally different.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with
     themselves get farther in life.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that no matter how many friends you have,  if you are their
     pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them the most.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that even when you think you have no more to give, when a
     friend cries out to you,  you will find the strength to help.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that credentials on the wall DO NOT make you a decent
     human being.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that it's hard to determine where to draw the line betweeen
     being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you
     believe.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that it takes years to build up trust,  and only seconds to
     destroy it.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
     but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and
     have the best time.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in
     your life that counts.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
     After that, you had better know something.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want
     to be.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that learning to forgive takes practice.
     
     I'VE LEARNED  that writing,  as well as talking,  can ease emotional pains..
     

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       The Bible says that we are not to turn our backs on those who are in need ---
                                       for we might be entertaining angels!

     
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