ANSWERING HIM
                                                                 by  Edgar Guest
       

                "When shall I be a man?" he said,
                As I was putting him to bed.
                "How many years will have to be
                Before Time makes a man of me?
                And will I be a man when
                I am grown up big?
       
                I heaved a sigh,
                Because it called for careful thought
                To give the answer that he sought.
                And so I sat him on my knee,
                And said to him: "A man you'll be
       
                When you have learned that honor brings
                More joy than all the crowns of kings;
                That it is better to be true
                To all who know and trust in you
                Than all the gold of earth to gain
                If winning it shall leave a stain.
       
                "When you can fight for victory sweet,
                Yet bravely swallow down defeat,
                And cling to hope and keep the right,
                Nor use deceit instead of might;
       
                When you are kind and brave and clean,
                And fair to all and never mean;
                When there is good in all you plan,
                That day, my boy, you'll be a man.
       
                "Some of us learn this truth too late;
                That years alone can't make us great;
                That many who are three-score, ten
                Have fallen short of being men,
       
                Because in selfishness they fought
                And toiled without refining thought;
                And whether wrong or whether right
                They lived but for their own delight.
       
               "When you have learned that you must hold
                Your honor dearer far than gold;
                That no ill-gotten wealth or fame
                Can pay you for your tarnished name;
       
                And when in all you say or do
                Of others you're considerate, too,
                Content to do the best you can
                By such a creed, you'll be a man."
       

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